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Curt Ghormley's avatar

Too many of my friends and associates have looked forward to leaving the day job for so long, they have built up unrealistic expectations. The first week I retired, I received the usual monthly bills for household utilities, and I suddenly realized: Oh yeah! Life goes on!

Love the emphasis on retaining a continuing focus on personal growth and ambition. That perspective adds energy and fulfillment.

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Stephen Pao's avatar

Nick, there's a lot of like about this essay, and I agree that I've definitely experienced times of summer in retirement as you note! At the same time, I am not sure I would personally use the metaphor of life phases being lumped into single cycle of the seasons, with retirement being one of them. Retirement has all the richness of all the cycles! Metaphorically, I appreciate the concept that we don't stop experiencing these "seasonal" cycles at any phase of life. In retirement, I stilI learn new things (spring), enjoy them (summer), reflect on them (fall), and also experience loss (winter).

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